We really get set up to fail in relationships throughout our lives by what we were taught? Asking a girl to be YOUR girlfriend. Asking a woman to be YOUR wife. Even having sex with a chick and immediately getting the impression that her vagina is now your property. All of this is untrue.
We don’t own anyone! She was never YOURS. We are all masters of our own universe. You chose her, yes. But she made the conscious choice to chose YOU too. Together you share your love, your sex, your emotions and life together. But, when that ends, and that connection severs you have to come to the grips with the fact that she has the freedom to chose whoever else she wants to co-exist with.
Let go. It was never yours.